Penat aku buat karangan rupanya post aku tak kena publish. Puih. Okay whatever so I'm gonna publish it no matter what. Hihi. Seminggu bersarang dalam draft rupanya :O
I've just finished watching Ustaz Don's speech. Speech eh? Okay he gave an interesting example. There is 2 person in a mosque.
One of them is a teenage boy and another one is an adult. A man. After finish praying, the man realized the boy's tshirt somehow has some graphics on it which as muslim's know, you should wear something plain to perform solat.
So the man rushes to see the boy and starts scolding the boy. He doesn't gave a nice reprimand towards the boy.
Can you imagine the boy's feeling? He is just a youth who needs guidance. He got a shock while the man burst out loudly and angrily to him. For sure the boy will start to feel furious and started to think 'so what, back off'. His intention to do good things will be ruined in a second because of what the man had said. And of course the young boy feel a little bit hurt. Oh maybe a lot.
Our prophet used to admonish people gently and nicely which can soften the hearts especially teenagers like us.
Another example?
Here's a girl. She's slowly took the step to cover her aurat. Step by step and slowly to get used to it in any circumstance. Lets say the same thing happened. A woman scold her loudly with harsh words when she saw the girl with no hijab on her head. The woman spread bad things about the girl to a few boys saying the girl have no dignity and so on to make people look down on her. Guess how will the girl feels? She'll make a distant towards her good intention and being hurt.
One of them is a teenage boy and another one is an adult. A man. After finish praying, the man realized the boy's tshirt somehow has some graphics on it which as muslim's know, you should wear something plain to perform solat.
So the man rushes to see the boy and starts scolding the boy. He doesn't gave a nice reprimand towards the boy.
Can you imagine the boy's feeling? He is just a youth who needs guidance. He got a shock while the man burst out loudly and angrily to him. For sure the boy will start to feel furious and started to think 'so what, back off'. His intention to do good things will be ruined in a second because of what the man had said. And of course the young boy feel a little bit hurt. Oh maybe a lot.
Our prophet used to admonish people gently and nicely which can soften the hearts especially teenagers like us.
Another example?
Here's a girl. She's slowly took the step to cover her aurat. Step by step and slowly to get used to it in any circumstance. Lets say the same thing happened. A woman scold her loudly with harsh words when she saw the girl with no hijab on her head. The woman spread bad things about the girl to a few boys saying the girl have no dignity and so on to make people look down on her. Guess how will the girl feels? She'll make a distant towards her good intention and being hurt.
Rewind all of this and stop at the first moment. If these two adolescents advice these two youngsters gently with no harsh on them at the first glance. These two kids might be feeling a lot of courage to change for a better person. Kan?
Why would I suddenly write this?
Because it happens, in life :)
On me.